Hi, we are Jaxon and Sadie. Welcome to our family! Thank you so much for taking the time to learn about us and our little world. We are so excited for the chance that we have to grow our family through adoption, and we can’t wait to meet you.
We met while in high school, when Jaxon was a senior and Sadie a sophomore. Our paths crossed through having the same friend group, but we never got to know each other super well. When Jaxon returned from an LDS mission in 2016, we reconnected and right away our relationship took off. We spent every weekend together with our friend group and always found time for just the two of us as well. Later, in 2016, Sadie left to serve an LDS mission. We emailed and talked the whole time, and when Sadie got home Jaxon was there right away! He drove from Logan, Utah to St. George, Utah (about a 5-hour drive) to welcome her home. Our relationship picked up right where it left off and grew into love. We were engaged 6 months later and married 6 months after that.
We welcomed our amazing son, Hudson, into the world just a month after our first anniversary. Then, in late 2020 we decided it was time to grow our family, naively thinking it would be just as easy as before. Unfortunately, we experienced three pregnancy losses and lost four babies (one set of twins). We welcomed our happy little girl, Delilah, to our family in 2023! Though the heartache we felt at the time of loss was indescribable, our hearts are full in parenthood no matter how that journey becomes us. We have been drawn to adoption even stronger than before. Ever since deciding on adoption we have felt so much peace and we know this was always a part of our family plan.
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.